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“But I don’t want to get off my train”

‘This morning I was on a New Jersey Transit train heading home from a weekend with friends. I have been riding these trains for so long that I could sort my destination with my eyes closed.

But there was a young family sitting near us on the train and it was the first train ride for the little boy. He must have been three or four.

His excitement was contagious. He loved seeing us fly past the trees, and see other trains pass by. He had his face up against the window and couldn’t take his eyes off the outside.

If you take a step back, and not see it as a means to an end, but through a kid’s eyes, it really is a fun way to travel.

I figured he would love getting off the train because the station we disembarked has the trains on street level, so you actually have to climb up to get in the train, you aren’t just walking on a platform. So I figured for such a small kid, he would love that.

I was wrong.

He was so enthused by the moving trains, that when we all had to get off, as it was the last stop, you would have thought his parents were beating him. He screamed bloody murder…”BUT I DON’T WANT TO GET OFF MY TRAIN.”

I suppose eventually they were able to drag him off.


Losing AAA rating

Fascinating that the US lost its AAA credit rating last night. I have no idea what that means but since it is the first time in history that it happened, it’s probably not that good.

Clearly the US government has borrowed too much. Do wonder what happens next time there is a global situation where the US has to go get in another countries business. Who is paying?

If no one will bail the US out, then why should the US bail anyone else out incurring more debt?

Regardless, the US government has overspent, overborrowed and overpromised. Sounds like the housing crisis. And the banking crisis. I sense a pattern here.


Ticket Taxes

If you bought an airline ticket before July 23, (the day Congress failed the FAA), and you traveled during the shutdown (which is expected to end soon), you are entitled to a tax refund.

I am one of those people. The two airlines I flew, are offering refunds, but you have to go through the IRS in order to collect. The IRS website currently says, “The IRS will provide further guidance on this issue in the near future.”

I’m sure this is going to be so easy. Note sarcasm.

I am a strong believer that I’m entitled to those funds because of the inept government, and I will take steps to collect. At check in, I decided to pay extra for a roomier seat. I figured that since I already spent the money on the ticket, and I am entitled to this refund, it should be put to good use.

I’m certain there will be a lot of money that will go uncollected. My question is … will the IRS tax the airlines on this income?


WHY my hair?

Went through security at Fort Lauderdale International Airport the other day. I went through this new machine (at least I have never seen it) where you go in sideways and you have to raise your hands above your head and stand there for a few seconds without moving. If you move, you are pulled for a pat down. So I stood as still as I could.

I’m not sure they know how to use the machine because it got backed up a bit while they had to reset it. In order to keep the line moving they were directing certain people in my line to the regular machine. I was curious to see this crazy machine, I’ve seen a lot, but never this one, so I hoped I got to go through this particular line, and I did.

When I came out, I was pulled to the side, because apparently it takes another thirty seconds to get the result. My result was fine, except, the TSA agent had to go through my hair. Like a pat down of my hair? What could possibly be in there? The ponytail holder had no metal in it, and besides, my hair is usually up when I am at an airport anyway.

I didn’t ask because I was flabbergasted, but what could I possibly be hiding in my hair? I don’t even have big hair where you might be able to sneak something in it. Maybe it was so soft and luscious, the TSA agent just had to cop a feel.

WHY Wednesday


You Want What?

I stopped at the bank the other day asking for checkbook registers.

The guy looked at me and was like don’t you do online banking? Yes, as a matter of fact I do (and I know quite a few who have not yet embraced it). But I am really anal and I don’t trust the bank so I like to keep a record as well. It took him a few minutes, but he was able to scour up two checkbook registers.

Are these obsolete? Am I the only one who keeps track with these still…aside from the non-online banking people?


Life is…

Unfortunately I was recently reminded, yet again, that life is too short.

The below is an excerpt of an email I sent to friends and family soon after going to a funeral of a childhood friend last year. After the news I heard last week, it’s time for yet another reminder.

Take the time out of your day to make time for those close to you. If distance is an issue, consider the alternative. Six feet under is far away. Everything else is much closer.

The never-ending to do list and the mundane things that keep you from spending time with friends and family don’t really matter much when you are dead. It’s the time you spend and the experiences you have with friends and family while you are alive that truly matter.


Miss me yet?

Soon. I will be home soon.

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Update post-trip

Tuesday morning we got up early, had some breakfast, since the beach chair people wouldn’t set up til at least 9. So with breakfast in our bellies, we went to the beach for another two hours or so. Then made the sad drive home. The NJ Parkway is kind of pretty far south but as you go farther north and then transfer to the NJ Turnpike, boy is it ugly.

The only good part about the NJ Turnpike is that for a few exits the planes over head are taking off and landing from Newark Liberty Airport and it’s cool to watch from the road.

The traveler in me always wonders where they flights taking off are headed and where the flights landing had just come from.

Time to plan another!!


And…

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Update post-trip

Oh Monday. Two of us went for a bike ride, and one for a run. The houses in Cape May look like gingerbread homes and each is prettier than the last. Check out some of my favorites.

 

 

 

We rode our bikes to breakfast at Uncle Bills Pancake House and then after speaking to our waitress – who looked 16 but had to be at least 21 from her stories helping further declare that we are old – decided we would bike it to the Cape May Winery, a few miles away. Over a bridge that had a huge hill, ongoing construction and no shoulder in one direction.

But people, yes, they are nice down there. Three bikers en route to a winery holding up traffic while pumping those pedals up hill. And not one car horn. (Wait, it gets better on the way back).

Made our way to the Cape May Winery which I highly highly recommend.

We were not expecting much but all three of us were pleasantly surprised. Our experience was top notch. Plus it was a Monday. After our tasting, we each bought a glass and shared a cheese plate. Sitting outside on a day with perfect weather looking at the grapevines on a Monday, scores an A plus in my book.

The ride back…oh you pesky bridge. This time we had to merge with traffic but couldn’t ride up the hill. So three of us walked our bikes, with traffic backing up behind us. Not one beep. Not one. Once we made it to the top, we got back on the saddle and basically flew back to our hotel down the big hill.

Post-winery, we hit up the Rusty Nail (yes again, don’t judge!). It is part of our hotel, the Beach Shack. And how convenient because Monday from 11 til sunset is no shower happy hour. $1 Miller Lite bottles. Winning.

After a couple of rounds, we headed to the beach and took to some good reading, and napping. Around six, we left the beach, got ready for dinner and rode off to return our wheels (the bikes) by 7p.

Dinner on our last night. Where to go. Well, I can tell you where three 30-something ladies with no kids don’t want to go. That would be the restaurant where we actually sat down before realizing it was kid’s night. And not just kid’s night dinner specials. Clowns, face painting and balloon animal making. It took us a hot thirty seconds to get up and get out. But should you have a child, I highly recommend.

We went to a more family style restaurant. Looked right out of 1975. Carpet, wood walls. Our food took a long time but it was our last night so we weren’t in much of a hurry for dinner to end. Typical bar food. We had quesadillas, burgers, crabcake sliders and fries at our table. Headed back to the room around 10p. We were able to get in two rounds of Rummy 500…which on the prior year’s girls trip to St. Lucia, we had played plenty since it rained every single day except the day we left.

We did not have that problem this year. The weather was gorgeous.


Gotcha!

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Translation Trouble, WHY would you eat there, Spectacular Smells, Hello, is this the fire department, House of Hell

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Update: post-trip

Sunday we stopped at the Welcome Center where we got some info, and it just happened to be right next to the bicycle rental place. So we rented bikes so we could visit the Cape May Lighthouse. We rode there, took a few shots of the lighthouse…

visited the gift shop and biked back to town. This was a few miles each way so when we returned, we visited the Ugly Mug bar for lunch and to watch the end of the women’s final soccer game. Post lunch, we hit up the pool, and the poolside beverage service. We had bought three day beach passes so we could have merely crossed the street, but today, today would be a pool day.

Sidenote: Yes, we had to pay to get on the beach. I think New Jersey is the only state that charges people to get on the beach. For that matter, the state charges you to drive on their roads too. And yet somehow the state is still ridiculously over budget. Go figure.

Post-pool we went to return the bikes with a stop at the local Acme to stock up on jugs of water and some snacks. When we were about to hand over the bikes, one of us had the great idea to keep them for another day. So with a brief stop at the bike shop we handed over payment and secured the bikes for an additional twenty-four hours.

Dinner was a late one on Sunday night at the Blue Pig Tavern, at the Congress Hall Hotel. This hotel is a sister property to where we stayed but has been in business since the 1800s. After dinner we took a leisurely walk back to the Rusty Nail (I told you we spent some time there!) for some live music. As you can imagine, a Sunday night was much quieter, but still a very chill, relaxed feel.

And then off to bed. I should note that while on vacation I had some crazy dreams. In fact, I think it was Sunday night, I dreamt that I was Kate and Wills (oh yes, the royals) personal tour guide around New York City. It was a nice dream.


Hello from the Beach

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Update post-trip:

We did get to the beach and since we couldn’t check in until three, made our way to the beach, the bar and lunch. By the time we checked in we had experienced a good chunk of our trip.

Lovely day. Lovely dinner. Martini Beach. We ordered tapas to share at the table. I don’t believe I have ever tried escargot, but it was delicious. As were the blue cheese stuffed olives in our martinis.

Then back to the Rusty Nail for some drinks and live music. This bar has such a fun day vibe, but we only had one complaint for the night scene. I realize Cape May is a quieter town and all but get the Saturday night band, which was good, played a little on the slow side. And when they did  play something that three 30-something girls would want to dance to, they played it, then said they were taking a break. When the dance floor was packed? Really?

That would be my only complaint about the Rusty Nail. We had many great meals there, fantastic drink specials and the staff and bartenders were fabulous.